Download: Creating Confidence
One of the worst things you can do for your self confidence is to worry what others are thinking of you. Most of the time when you worry, they aren’t thinking of you anyway.
So many people would have more self confidence if they didn’t constantly check social media, worrying about the number of likes or what other people are doing on weekends.
Regardless of where other people may go with their lives or on their vacations, their journey is not your own. Their experiences and values will never be like yours. Each of us is different.
What makes you happy could make another miserable. What makes another miserable could make you burst with joy. We would all do well to stay in our own lanes and live our own lives.
When you learn to live for yourself and give a shit less what others think of you, a weight is removed from your shoulders and you can move about your life more freely.
You have the freedom to feel good about yourself. You have absolutely no reason to ever doubt anything you can imagine because if you can imagine it, you can create it.
Confidence and belief in yourself will be the difference between second place and first place. Believing in yourself will be the difference between a life of happiness or a life of misery.
So stop worrying what others think of you. Nobody cares about what you’re doing anyway so you may as well enjoy your life, march to your own drum beat, and dance openly.
Dance like nobody’s watching. Because they aren’t.